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SUMMARY:What To Do When You Discover Your New Boyfriend Is Using Drugs
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 began to make sense: depression, silence, hyperactivity, lack of money, 
 the seesaw of interest. I suddenly felt less crazy. But I felt sick to my 
 stomach.\n\nDating is hard. It feels harder doing it sober somehow 
 (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/sober-singles). It is a 
 process of acute awareness and relearning how to have a functional and 
 healthy relationship. You have to re-learn what healthy boundaries work 
 for you; you discover that the co-dependency train didn’t miss your stop
 after all and it is just as much a feature of your disease of addiction as
 everyone else’s. And you re-learn how to effectively communicate with 
 your partner. New relationships require navigation: of meeting your needs 
 while also meeting the needs of a new romantic endeavor—all the while 
 feeling like a teenager again. They are not easy, which is why it is 
 suggested you steer clear in your first year of recovery.\n\nImagine doing
 all that sobriety work, dating a number of frogs, and then finding a guy 
 that made you feel different. Someone who got you. A guy that made you 
 feel like you’ve never felt before: desired, interesting, funny, and 
 sexy. I was radiant and I felt incredible. It was like it was too good to 
 be true.\n\nSponsored Ads  \nLooking For Lonely Singles? Try Loveawake 
 Free Dating Site:  \nDating Site For Lonely People In New Zealand 
 (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/New-Zealand-dating-service.h
 tml?page=48)\nIt 
 was.\n\nMy experience of the relationship turned into a rollercoaster that
 speedily navigated the rise of desire and passion, and the lows of doubt, 
 depression, anxiety, and changes in behavior. I began questioning myself. 
 It felt like he was blowing hot and cold, but I wasn’t sure if this was 
 my expectations being too high—was I expecting it to be great all the 
 time? I didn't have an experience of a healthy relationship so I had 
 nothing to compare it to. But I knew my instincts were telling me 
 something was wrong and that this kind of relationship doesn’t work for 
 me. My recovery is predicated upon balance and striving for a 
 straightforward and flowing life, one which flows toward awareness, 
 self-improvement, and growth. This was a rollercoaster.\n\nAfter another 
 turbulent exchange and cooling off period, I’m told the reason for the 
 rollercoaster: my boyfriend had been taking hard drugs and omitted to tell
 me during four months of our relationship—despite knowing I was in 
 long-term recovery.\n\nMy world came crashing down.\n\nI was flummoxed and
 heartbroken. I couldn’t believe that I hadn’t seen the signs of drug 
 use.\n\nThen came the unravelling.\n\nHow could I miss the signs? I am so 
 stupid! He knew I was in recovery! How could he not tell me? Have I been 
 around drugs? These were some of the questions I repeatedly asked 
 myself.\n\nMy mind went into overdrive, unpacking everything over the past
 four months. Everything began to make sense: depression, silence, 
 hyperactivity, lack of money, looking withdrawn, the seesaw of interest 
 versus—what appeared as—apathy. I suddenly felt less crazy. But I felt
 sick to my stomach. I couldn’t eat and my head was in a spin.\n\nIt is 
 important for me to acknowledge that he didn’t intentionally lie to 
 me—I could see it must have been difficult to tell someone in 
 established recovery that you have been using drugs—but he omitted a 
 very important truth. A truth that could’ve jeopardized my recovery by 
 putting me in a situation where drugs had been used. I was around 
 drug-type behavior and drama that I had intentionally removed from my life
 when I found recovery. In my mind, omission is a form of dishonesty. A 
 solid and long-lasting relationship cannot be founded upon dishonesty. 
 Trust is paramount.\n\nI was torn between what I knew about hard drug 
 use—and its incompatibility in a relationship with someone in 
 recovery—and losing someone I had developed strong feelings for. To some
 people this is a black and white decision: if you want to keep yourself 
 safe and avoid a lot of drama, end the relationship. It wasn’t so 
 straightforward for me--because of my feelings, because he had stopped, 
 and because part of me saw some hope that it could work out.\n\nWas I 
 naïve? Possibly.\n\nBefore I made any decisions, I had to understand the 
 nature and extent of the drug use. I gave him the opportunity to talk and 
 I discovered it was sporadic and it had stopped two weeks prior—which 
 seemed inconsistent with addiction. I knew that I couldn’t have a 
 relationship with someone in active addiction, but I could potentially 
 with someone who had stopped their sporadic drug use and had insight into 
 their behavior.\n\nI then checked in with my support network: my doctor, a
 drug worker, and friends with long-standing recovery. I explained the 
 situation and asked for advice and support. I listened and considered 
 their comments and concerns. I cannot underestimate the importance of my 
 solid support network, but they cannot tell me what to do. With this 
 information, I was able to make a more informed decision, with some 
 objective perspectives from people who were not emotionally involved.\n\nI
 next considered if this relationship is something I wanted—irrespective 
 of what others thought what was right or wrong for me. I had to decide 
 what felt right for me. Ultimately, I wanted to give things a go. For the 
 purposes of sharing my experience, I made that decision because I had 
 strong feelings for him, I saw a future, he had already stopped using 
 drugs and I believed that, and I didn’t think he was a person struggling
 with addiction. I was also reminded of how many chances people have given 
 me.\n\nHaving made that decision, I considered my boundaries: that I could
 not date someone who used drugs—that was incompatible with my recovery; 
 that I need him to seek help and support for that drug use; and that my 
 recovery, safety, and sanity comes before the relationship.\n\nI explained
 these boundaries and that any reconciliation would take time. While I 
 appreciated that his dishonesty was not intentional, his actions and 
 omissions hurt me and I needed to heal. Trust would have to be rebuilt and
 that would be slow. With this new level of openness, I was able to keep 
 expressing my feelings which strengthened the rebuilding of the 
 relationship.\n\nIn terms of keeping my recovery strong, I made sure that 
 I had all of the support and means of expression that I needed to sustain 
 my recovery. I maintained meeting attendance, continued to speak to 
 recovery friends frequently, journaled and checked in with myself, and 
 looked after my mental and physical health. This came above everything 
 else.\n\nChoosing to stay hasn’t been easy. I have questioned my 
 decision, doubted, and experienced heightened senses. I have been 
 suspicious. But I realized that if I am truly to give this a go, I needed 
 to draw a line under what has happened and give things a try 
 wholeheartedly. A good friend of mine says to me that trust is not the 
 absence of doubt. I don’t have to forget, but I can move on, with a 
 wiser perspective. The truth is that no one can tell you what to do in 
 this situation—only you can—but I can tell you that the most important
 decision for me was to keep my recovery safe, whatever I 
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