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My first boyfriend cheated on me and showed absolutely no remorse. So, when we broke up, I calmly and quite calculatingly cut up every piece of clothing he had at my place. I then took a set of pliers and destroyed every piece of jewelry he ever gave me. Once finished I hand delivered him the scraps of material. This way he couldn’t regift the gifts and give them to the next girl.
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I admit, it was a little crazy. Looking back I probably should have just thrown away the items, but, it was satisfying at the time. I made a dramatic point!
The crazy train continued during my next breakup. My ex and I were arguing in the kitchen and I just so happened to be near the knives. Things intensified quickly. I also noticed he seemed kind of jumpy. His eyes were as big as saucers and bounced from me to my hands to the knives. It occurred to me he thought I might pull a knife on him, which at the time I found hilarious. So I began making outlandish gestures in the direction of the knives. He nearly jumped out of his skin when he ran out of the kitchen. I laughed hysterically. Surely he thought, this chick is crazy!
But, maybe we’re all a little crazy after a breakup. I’ve heard stories of women slashing tires, bleaching clothes, and throwing paint all over Jordan’s. Jazmine Sullivan sings about “busting windows out his car” – and many women have done so. And yes, there may have been a time where I dumped an ex’s alcohol and filled the bottles with tap water. Sue me! I’ve been the Queen of Petty!
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Now, I look back on my crazy break up antics and realize they were learning experiences. A break up is a volatile time; emotions run high. I know not to escalate these situation. What’s important is to take time to regroup and act like your sane self again. It’s much better to put down the crowbar, can of paint, or whatever weapon of destruction, and pour that energy into self-healing and self-improvement. As satisfying as hurting him or his items may feel in the moment, it’s not worth catching a case over and losing your dignity and sanity.
Divorce Changes Everything You Thought You Knew About Love and Dating
Your Boyfriend Is Not Going to Marry You
Things I Learned About Myself, Post-Divorce
The Ashley Madison Hack Made Me Rethink My Marriage
My 30-Second Secret to a Happy Marriage
10 Ways My Husband and I Are Just Like an Old Married Couple
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9 Ways to Spice Up Your Relationship After You Have Reproduced
Confession: I Am Not Attracted to Attractive Men
Apparently "Wife Bonuses" Are a Thing Now
Stop Lying to Your Husband About the Little Things
Reinventing Myself in My Ex-Husband's World
What I've Learned About Dating as a Middle-Aged Mom of Six
Rummy Apk List
All Rummy Games
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All Yono Rummy App
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All Top Yono Rummy App
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My first boyfriend cheated on me and showed absolutely no remorse. So, when we broke up, I calmly and quite calculatingly cut up every piece of clothing he had at my place. I then took a set of pliers and destroyed every piece of jewelry he ever gave me. Once finished I hand delivered him the scraps of material. This way he couldn’t regift the gifts and give them to the next girl.
PLUS: Women Literally Feel More Pain After a Breakup
I admit, it was a little crazy. Looking back I probably should have just thrown away the items, but, it was satisfying at the time. I made a dramatic point!
The crazy train continued during my next breakup. My ex and I were arguing in the kitchen and I just so happened to be near the knives. Things intensified quickly. I also noticed he seemed kind of jumpy. His eyes were as big as saucers and bounced from me to my hands to the knives. It occurred to me he thought I might pull a knife on him, which at the time I found hilarious. So I began making outlandish gestures in the direction of the knives. He nearly jumped out of his skin when he ran out of the kitchen. I laughed hysterically. Surely he thought, this chick is crazy!
But, maybe we’re all a little crazy after a breakup. I’ve heard stories of women slashing tires, bleaching clothes, and throwing paint all over Jordan’s. Jazmine Sullivan sings about “busting windows out his car” – and many women have done so. And yes, there may have been a time where I dumped an ex’s alcohol and filled the bottles with tap water. Sue me! I’ve been the Queen of Petty!
WATCH: 7 Funny Ways People Deal with Breakups
Now, I look back on my crazy break up antics and realize they were learning experiences. A break up is a volatile time; emotions run high. I know not to escalate these situation. What’s important is to take time to regroup and act like your sane self again. It’s much better to put down the crowbar, can of paint, or whatever weapon of destruction, and pour that energy into self-healing and self-improvement. As satisfying as hurting him or his items may feel in the moment, it’s not worth catching a case over and losing your dignity and sanity.